Turning Pain Into Purpose
Turning Pain into Purpose – An Interview with Author Jori O’Neale
Welcome back to “52 Authors, 52 Weeks!” In this week’s episode, we sat down with the inspiring Jori O’Neale. Her story is one of resilience, redemption, and turning life's hardships into meaningful lessons. This interview dives into how Jori's personal journey led her to become a published author, educator, and mentor, with insights that can help anyone looking to find purpose in their own struggles.
Host: Thank you for joining us today, Jori. Let’s jump right in—your book, "History Determines Her Story," is just one of many. Could you tell us a bit about your journey and what led you to write?
Jori O’Neale: Thank you for having me! I grew up on the South Side of Chicago, and my life has been a journey of overcoming trauma, finding faith, and discovering purpose. From enduring abuse to becoming a high school teacher and published author, it’s been about turning pain into a powerful message. My book "History Determines Her Story" is about not forgetting where you came from but using it to move forward. Each chapter encourages readers to explore their own history and release the pain holding them back.
On Turning Trauma into Triumph
Jori shared a pivotal moment in her life when she realized the power of words. As a teenager, she hurt a fellow student with cruel remarks, leading that student to attempt suicide. This incident became a turning point:
"I made a vow at 17 to never curse again and to use my words to speak life instead of death," Jori revealed. "If words could hurt someone so deeply, imagine how they could heal."
From that moment, Jori began a journey of personal growth, studying theology and becoming a voice of positivity for others.
Takeaway for Readers:
We all have the power to change our narrative and impact others. Reflect on your actions, and commit to using your words and actions to uplift.
Faith and Therapy: A Dynamic Duo
Jori emphasized the importance of seeking both spiritual and professional help when dealing with trauma:
"Jesus heals the soul, but therapy helps get it out so you can give it to Him," she said. "I went to therapy for five years to address deep-seated issues. It was essential in preparing me for a healthy marriage, motherhood, and ministry."
Takeaway for Readers:
Healing often requires a combination of spiritual guidance and professional help. Don’t be afraid to seek therapy alongside prayer and faith.
Balancing Hustle with Rest
With nine books under her belt and a thriving career in education and media, Jori practices what she calls "seasonal productivity."
"I believe in working hard during certain seasons, but also resting fully in others," she explained. "There’s a time for everything, as Ecclesiastes says. We’re not meant to hustle endlessly. Rest is part of God’s plan."
Takeaway for Readers:
Avoid burnout by creating intentional periods of productivity and rest. Recognize the importance of balance in achieving long-term success.
Using Your Story to Heal Others
Jori’s passion for storytelling extends beyond her books. She coaches aspiring authors, helping them turn their personal experiences into transformative stories.
"Our stories are not just for us—they’re meant to help others heal," Jori said. "Writing allows us to release pain and turn it into purpose. I’ve seen it time and time again with my clients."
Takeaway for Readers:
Your story has value. Writing it down can be a healing process for you and an inspiration for others.
Jori’s Book Recommendations
In addition to History Determines Her Story, Jori’s other works tackle everything from personal growth to parenting teens. Here are a few highlights:
"Unleash Your God-Given Gift" – A step-by-step guide to discovering your purpose.
"Shifting Mindsets" – A guide for parents and teens to understand each other better.
"More Than Enough" – A collaborative book featuring stories of overcoming challenges.
Pro Tip: Start with the book that speaks most to your current challenges, whether it’s finding purpose, improving family dynamics, or simply seeking inspiration.
Final Words of Wisdom
Jori left us with this powerful reminder:
"If you commit to your purpose and trust God’s plan, you are never truly alone. Your history doesn’t define you—it prepares you for the future."
Connect with Jori:
Website: https://jorioneale.com
Social Media: @JoriONeale on LinkedIn, Facebook, and Threads
Special Offer: Use the code OneLife at Jori’s website to join her monthly writing workshop at a discounted rate. https://iyhinnertainme.ticketleap.com/your-story-matters/
Closing Thoughts:
Jori O’Neale’s journey is a testament to the power of faith, resilience, and storytelling. Whether you’re an aspiring author or someone searching for purpose, her wisdom offers a roadmap for turning trials into triumphs.
Stay tuned for more inspiring stories from “52 Authors, 52 Weeks”!
